Sex is everywhere we look these days. From seeing commercials that glorify the act of sex to seeing scantily clad people out and about in the world, it can have a desensitizing and distancing effect. Sex is no longer a fun, important act. It can make us feel like me ‘don’t measure up’, but here are the three sexy moves you have to try when you just want to spice up your romance a little.
Engage All Your Senses
While sex usually involves the feeling of touch, why don’t you get your other senses to be in on the fun? Smell and taste are particularly linked to our enjoyment of intimate acts. Try using a scented lotion or bath oil, or breaking out some flavored lubricants? You can share the journey and create more fun for the destination. Take the time to really try to describe how these smells and tastes make you feel, it can make you feel more mentally connected to your partner.
Enjoy Yourselves Together
It is not something we talk about very often, but pleasuring yourself is even more fun when done in front of a partner. They will see how you really like to be touched, which are the most erogenous zones for you. Everyone is different, and being comfortable enough with your partner to share something so private is a great way to increase your enjoyment of the act by showing your partner exactly what you like, and vice versa, and you will also become closer. You will feel a deeper connection on a more spiritual level.
Play Dress Up
This is not to say that you should raid an eccentric person’s wardrobe, more that you should play around with the things you would wear underneath. A sexy reverse striptease in the morning, with your partner watching how you get ready will fill them with anticipation for things that the evening might hold. You can be as extreme as a pair of thigh high stockings with a matching garter belt, or even just making sure your panties and bra are a set. Making it into a sexy ritual is really all that’s needed to get the blood pumping between you. You can also involve some fun toys to make it even more exciting (Source: 성인용품)
A lot of the time couples complain about a staleness to their love lives, but with these little tricks, you can pour a little gas on your fire. Remember to always listen to how your partner feels about something, and use these tips to become closer both in the bedroom and in your daily lives. Try one trick, or put all three together to really try something new and exciting.